Question 1

Is this legal?

Accepted Answer

Yes, it's legal. Our events are private functions of a private membership club, involving consensual acts between adult men aged 18 years and older. We comply with all laws and strictly monitor for and do not allow alcohol brought from outside, drugs, or minors.

Question 2

Is membership required? How do I join?

Accepted Answer

Yes, we are a membership club.
Single-Event Membership: A club membership is included with the purchase of every event ticket. You are automatically a member for that night.
Annual Membership: We plan to offer annual memberships soon, which will provide reduced admission for frequent attendees.

Question 3

Is oral or anal sex allowed?

Accepted Answer

Brooklyn Jacks was created for one specific reason: To masturbate with other men. PERIOD.
We get it—guys have interests outside of mutual masturbation—but this is not the place for those activities. If you're looking for more than a jacking off party, you're going to be disappointed.

Members who violate the club rules regarding oral or anal contact will be asked to leave immediately.
Violation may lead to your membership privileges being suspended or permanently revoked, and you won't be allowed back.
View the complete Code of Conduct at the top of this page for more information.

Question 4

Can I use poppers.... uhhh... I mean video head cleaners?

Accepted Answer

Yeah, if you need to "clean some video heads" or "odorize the room," you can bring one of those little glass bottles.

But listen up:

Be considerate of others who might have health problems that make poppers dangerous.
PUT THE LID BACK ON when you're done. That stuff is nasty if it spills.
We strongly encourage you to educate yourself on the potential dangers of poppers. Plenty of guys love them, but like most pleasures, they come with risks.

Question 5

Where are the events held?

Accepted Answer

Brooklyn Jacks hosts our events in a large, comfortable, and private basement-level club in Park Slope, Brooklyn. We do not publish the street address for events publicly. That's to protect the privacy of our members, staff, and the property. Complete the form called "The Spot" at the bottom of every page on our website and we'll send you an email  immediately with everything you need to know.

Question 6

When is the next Brooklyn Jacks event?

Accepted Answer

Check the Events page on our website. That's where you'll find all the dates.

Question 7

What's the price of entry?

Accepted Answer

Everyone who shows up must be a member of Brooklyn Jacks.

Here is the cost structure (which includes a single-event membership):

Standard Members: $30
Students and Ages 18-25: $20
Annual Memberships will be available soon for discounted entry for one calendar year from the date of purchase.

Question 8

What's the headcount?

Accepted Answer

Attendance changes every time—that's just how these clubs run. Our play space is massive; we can easily handle 150 guys and still have room to breathe.

Question 9

Where do I store my stuff during the event?

Accepted Answer

We provide a free, mandatory, and attended clothes check for you to stow your personal belongings during the event. Tips are greatly appreciated. We are not responsible for personal items left behind after the party. Double-check that you have all your shit before you walk out the door.

Question 10

Got lube?

Accepted Answer

Yes, we provide it. We make sure you have everything you need for a good time, and that includes lube. We supply complimentary Albolene and  Bator Balm brand premium lube, which is a favorite among our members.

If you prefer your own lube, you're welcome to bring it.
The club also provides hot, moist towels for cleanup before and after you get down to business.

Question 11

Is this safe?

Accepted Answer

Two things are safer: masturbating alone and no sex at all. We are a sex-positive group. Stay up-to-date — research on HIV and STIs constantly changes. We expect everyone to make informed, thoughtful decisions about their own health and harm reduction strategies.

Question 12

What is your nondiscrimination policy?

Accepted Answer

Our commitment to inclusion and diversity is what keeps this club real.

Here's the score: Aside from the requirement that you be an adult man (18+), we don't screen anyone.

We do not discriminate based on:
Age
Race or Ethnicity
Body Type or Fitness Level
Sexual Orientation

If you're a man and you're here to stroke it, you're welcome.

Question 13

Picky playmates?

Accepted Answer

You don't have to touch or be touched by anyone. You decide who your playmate is. Full stop.
That said, we encourage guys to use Brooklyn Jacks as a chance to ditch the bias. There are seriously hot and erotic men of all ages and types here. If you ultimately can't handle the friendly, erotic energy of a diverse crew, then honestly, our events probably aren't for you.

Question 14

No contact? No problem.

Accepted Answer

You are in charge of your body. You are never required to touch or be touched by anyone. If you want to watch and keep to yourself, grab a free red wristband at check-in. Wearing one clearly signals to other members that you do not wish to be touched.

Question 15

Nervous for your first time?

Accepted Answer

Feeling excited but nervous is natural for first-timers—it happens. Get over it and come try it out. We bet those nerves melt away fast once you're in the space.

Minimum Requirement: Our Code of Conduct says you must strip down to naked or either underwear / jockstrap - OR - t-shirt / tank top.
Beyond that, you run the show. You are in charge of your own level of participation.
You don't have to touch anyone, and you absolutely don't have to let anyone touch you.
We created a guide of what you can expect. Read it here.

Question 16

I'm not gay. Will I fit in?

Accepted Answer

If you identify as male and enjoy stroking it with other males, hell yeah, you should be here.

Masturbation is universal. This isn't about sexual orientation; it's about pleasure.
We're a crew of men who enjoy jacking off together. We don't ask about your sexual orientation or marital status.
If the idea of a room full of horny naked guys puts you off, then this club isn't for you.

Question 17

I'm a transgender man. Can I attend?

Accepted Answer

Here’s the deal: We are, and will remain, a membership club for men. What we simply refuse to do is try to define what makes a man. The vast majority of our members are cis-gender male.

Every man is welcome, regardless of his body or physicality.
It is mandatory that every single member—including any man with a vagina—must strictly follow the Code of Conduct at the top of this page.
This means honoring consent, demonstrating mutual respect, and absolutely enforcing the rule of non-penetration.
We do not permit any female-identified individuals to enroll or participate.

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